Choosing the Perfect song for your first dance at Your Wedding: Tips from a Professional DJ in Sussex

How to Choose the Perfect First Dance Song for Your Wedding

One of the most common questions I get as a wedding DJ is, “What is the most popular first dance song?” While some couples have their song picked out, others struggle to decide. If you’re still searching for the perfect first dance track, here are some expert tips to help you find a song that truly reflects your love story.

1. Create a List of Meaningful Songs

Start by making a list of songs that hold sentimental value for both of you. Think about tracks that remind you of special moments together—perhaps the song that played during your first date, a concert you attended, or a tune that always makes you think of each other. This personal connection will make your first dance even more special.

2. Listen Together and Choose Your Favorite

Make an evening of it! Pour a glass of wine, relax, and listen to your list of potential songs together. Pay attention to how each song makes you feel. A fun way to decide is to write down your top choice separately, then reveal them to each other. If you pick the same one, you may have just found your perfect first dance song!

3. Explore Classic First Dance Songs

If you’re still undecided, consider listening to timeless classics. These songs have stood the test of time and evoke deep emotions, setting a magical tone for your wedding. Whether you prefer jazz, soul, or modern ballads, classics often carry heartfelt lyrics and beautiful melodies that make for an unforgettable first dance.

4. Get Expert Advice from Your Wedding DJ

Your wedding DJ is an excellent resource when it comes to choosing the right song. As professionals, we’ve heard hundreds of first dance songs and can recommend both timeless and unique options. If you want to avoid overplayed choices, we can help you discover hidden gems that still capture the romance of the moment.

Some of My Favorite First Dance Songs

Here are some timeless and romantic first dance song suggestions:

• “Let There Be Love” – Nat King Cole
• “At Last” – Etta James
• “I Only Have Eyes for You” – The Flamingos
• “It Must Be Love” – Labi Siffri
• “It Had to Be You” – Frank Sinatra
• “The Way You Look Tonight” – Tony Bennett
• “With You I’m Born Again” – Billy Preston & Syreeta
• “Tonight I Celebrate My Love” – Peabo Bryson & Roberta Flack
• “You Are the Sunshine of My Life” – Stevie Wonder
• “All of Me” – John Legend

Enjoy the Process and Have Fun!

Choosing your first dance song should be a joyful experience, not a stressful one. Enjoy the process of finding a song that tells your love story. And remember, as your wedding DJ, I’m here to help! If you need guidance or suggestions, feel free to reach out—I’d love to make your first dance a moment to cherish forever.

Need help picking the perfect first dance song? Contact me today, and let’s create the perfect soundtrack for your special day!